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A Submissive's Spirit
Discussion and support forum exclusively for lifestyle female submissives 40 years and older. [Yahoo]
Absolute TPE
For the discussion of absolute total power exchange relationships. [Yahoo]
Adult Rope Art
Posts center on Japanese or Eastern Style rope art known as Kinbaku, Nawa-kesho and Nawa Shibari. [Yahoo]
Alabama BDSM
For Alabama residents looking for partners in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Alaska Power Trip
Dominance/submission lifestyle discussion, learning, teaching, and Alaskan community networking. [Yahoo]
Alberta BDSM
Promoting the BDSM lifestyle in Alberta, Canada. [Yahoo]
Alternative Erotic Lifestyles
For the discussion of BDSM, SM/Leather protocol, dressing for pleasure, philosophy, favorite scene books, techniques, toy ideas, history, and roles. [MSN]
Ann Arbor BDSM
Play party group from the Ann Arbor and Washanaw County area of Michigan. [Yahoo]
Ann Arbor TNG: The Next Generation Of Kinksters
An organization of young adults, aged 18 - 35 years, interested in BDSM. TNG hosts educational, support, and social events several times a month. [Yahoo]
Arab Leather Men
For Arab Leather men. [Yahoo]
Arcadiana Power Exchange
A BDSM group located in Lafayette, LA. Their membership covers all areas of the central and southern part of the state: Lake Charles, Alexandria, Lafayette, Baton Rouge and New Orleans. [Yahoo]
Arizona BDSM
Information and discussion from the Phoenix, AZ BDSM community. [Yahoo]
Arizona Goreans
For Goreans living in and around the state of Arizona, to meet other local Goreans and perhaps plan for real time gatherings. [Yahoo]
Arkansas Dungeon
Lifestyle discussion for all in the central Arkansas area. [Yahoo]
Auckland BDSM
For individuals in the Auckland, New Zealand area interested in exploring and sharing thoughts relating to BDSM.
Baltimore BDSM
For BDSM discussion in the greater Baltimore area.
BDSM 4 PWD
A forum for individuals with a disability and their partners to discuss issues of BDSM relating to physical limitations. [yahoo]
BDSM Alabama
Discussion and announcements list for BDSM lifestylers in and around Alabama. [Yahoo]
BDSM BC North
For individuals living in Northern British Columbia. [Yahoo]
BDSM Beaumont TX
BDSM discussion for individuals from Southeast Texas and Southwest Louisiana (Golden Triangle, Beaumont, Port Arthur, Orange, Jasper, Lake Charles, Livingston, Houston). [Yahoo]
BDSM California Events
For discussion, planning and publication of BDSM events in the Greater Southern, Central and Northern California areas. [Yahoo]
BDSM Canadians
For Canadian BDSM lifestyle discussion. [Yahoo]
BDSM Colorado
For individuals from Colorado involved or interested in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
BDSM Costuming
For anyone interested in making, designing, or wearing costumes to enhance BDSM experiences. [Yahoo]
BDSM Erotica Writers
Writers community of BDSM and alternative erotica. [Yahoo]
BDSM Europe
Discussion and information about BDSM events and activities in Europe. [Yahoo]
BDSM Event Planning
For alternative lifestyle event organizers to share ideas, experiences, and other information to help the community develop safer and better organized community meetings and events. [Yahoo]
BDSM for BBWs
For discussion of special issues that big beautiful women find in BDSM. [Yahoo]
BDSM for Newbies
To support and educate adults with questions about kink and the BDSM lifestyle. [Topica]
BDSM For Newbies
A safe, flame-free and welcoming place for those who are new to exploring BDSM, or just curious as to whether it is right for them. [Topica]
BDSM For People Of Color
An open forum for discussion and understanding of BDSM for People of Color.
BDSM For People Of Size
Devoted to people of size in the BDSM community, especially big beautiful women (BBWs), big handsome men (BHMs) and their admirers. This includes dominants, submissives, switches and everything in between. [Yahoo]
BDSM Greater Minnesota
Information and discussion from the greater MN BDSM community. [Yahoo]
BDSM Harley Lovers
For Harley lovers in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
BDSM Idaho
For members of the BDSM community in Idaho. [Yahoo]
BDSM Ireland
For anyone from Ireland interested in discussing BDSM. [Yahoo]
BDSM Kentucky
Discussion and meeting place for people in Kentucky and surrounding areas interested in BDSM. [Yahoo]
BDSM Legal Issues
Dedicated to legal issues surrounding BDSM as a consentual lifestyle, businesses whose major trade or product caters to people who engage in BDSM, and groups who are looking to discuss legal issues as they endeavor to set up groups/clubs/organizations. [Yahoo]
BDSM Minnesota
Pansexual list for discussion of BDSM, training, lifestyle and community issues in Minnesota. [Yahoo]
BDSM Montreal
Discussion forum & contact point for Montreal area BDSM scene residents, visitors, & other interested folk. [Yahoo]
BDSM Nashville
For individuals interested in BDSM who reside in Nashville, TN [Yahoo]
BDSM Nebraska
For individuals interested in BDSM from Nebraska. [Yahoo]
BDSM New York
Lifestyle discussion for Big Apple residents. [Yahoo}
BDSM New York City
To provide a meeting place for individuals interested in BDSM from New York City, New Jersey, and Philadelphia area. [Yahoo]
BDSM New Zeeland
NZ forum for the discussion of the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
BDSM of New Jersey
For individuals interested in BDSM from NJ. [Yahoo]
BDSM Oregon
For exchange of thoughts, opinions, and making connections with others in the BDSM lifestyle in the state of Oregon. [Yahoo]
BDSM Personals Canada
For Canadians in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
BDSM Personals Chicago
For adults who are interested in meeting a dominant or submissive partner in the Chicago area. [Yahoo]
BDSM Pony Play
For players in the human pony scene who incorporate kink as a part of their pony play. [Yahoo]
BDSM Rhode Island
For individuals interested in BDSM from Rhode Island. [Yahoo]
BDSM Romania
For individuals interested in BDSM from Romania. [Yahoo]
BDSM Safe Haven
A support network for members of the BDSM community with histories of emotional, physical or sexual abuse. [Yahoo]
BDSM San Antonio (Civil Discussions)
For improving contact and communication between BDSM and related communities in San Antonio, TX. [Yahoo]
BDSM Seattle
For individuals interested in BDSM in the Seattle, WA area. [Yahoo]
BDSM South West UK
For individuals interested in BDSM from the Southwestern region of the UK
BDSM Southern California
For chat and connection with BDSM lifestylers from the Marina Del Ray area of CA. [Yahoo]
BDSM SSC
For the South End Social Club, a munch group that meets in Auburn, WA. [Yahoo]
BDSM Sub Support
Help and support for submissive individuals who have made the lifestyle choice to live a BDSM relationships. [Yahoo]
BDSM UK
For people in the UK BDSM scene. [Yahoo]
BDSM Virginia
For Virginia residents interested in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
BDSM Western Australia
A western Australian based group for the discussion and promotion of alternative lifestyles. [Yahoo]
BDSMmaui
For support of the safe and sane lifestyle on the island of Maui, Hawaii. [Yahoo]
Behavior Spanking
For adults who advocate spanking to improve behavior. [Yahoo]
Black Doms And Subs
To bring people of color in the BDSM community closer together, through education and communication. [Yahoo]
Black Submissives Lounge
Conversation on the many issues that pertain to the dominant/submissive lifestyle for African American female submissives. [Yahoo]
Blue Roses BDSM
For people who appreciate candor and kink dosed with a healthy shot of alternative spirituality. [Topica]
Bondage Knots
For BDSM related chat, pictures and personal ads. [Yahoo]
Bound By Leather And Chains
A pansexual, educational, support and discussion group for real time lifestylers. [Yahoo]
Bound Pleasurez
For submissives living or exploring the dominant/submissive lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Bound Together
A society created to foster a sense of community for people interested in power exchange in and around the Midlands, UK. [Yahoo]
Brotherhood Of Nubian Dominants
A group for black male dominants dedicated to enhancing the nation through self-empowerment and focus on dominance/submission and the family. [Yahoo]
BSDM South Wales
For individual interested in BDSM from South Wales. [Yahoo]
C-BDSM
A BDSM support group based in Canberra, Australia. [Yahoo]
CAPEX
The Charlotte Area Power Exchange is a not-for-profit pansexual organization in Charlotte and the Southern North Carolina areas for people who share an interest in BDSM. [Yahoo]
Captivity
Dedicated to the technology of captivity in consensual male dominant/female submissive relationships. This includes steel bondage, prison technology, cells, cages and other practical methods of physical control of women.
Care & Training Of Your Sub/Slave/Sissy
For mistresses and dommes to share advice and information on the care, feeding and training of submissives, slaves and sissy maids. [Yahoo]
Carolina BDSM
For people in the Carolinas who are into the BDSM Lifestyle or interested in learning more about it. [Yahoo]
Casa D/S Spanking
For open-minded dominants and submissives, with spanking discussion and support.[Yahoo]
Central Jersey BDSM
For the exchange of information related to BDSM for people living in the Central New Jersey area. [Yahoo]
Central TX TNG
Central Texas BDSM group serving persons aged 18-35, providing social and educational activities via list discussions, weekly chat, and monthly meetings. [Yahoo]
Central Valley BDSM
Events, discussion and announcements for the alternative community located in the Central Valley area of California. [Yahoo]
ChaSM
BDSM group in Charleston, SC. [Yahoo]
Chastity
For those interested in chastity belts and total denial of sexual activity. [Yahoo]
Chicago BDSM Singles
For adult singles, couples, families who are interested in finding a significant other in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Choice Of Submission
For christians in dominant/submissive relationships. [Yahoo]
Christian Ds
A forum to discuss BDSM and dominance and submission from a Christian perspective. Individuals in male or female dominant relationships are accepted. [Yahoo]
Cincinnati D/s
For couples and singles in the Cincinnati, Northern Kentucky and Indiana area interested in the Dominant/submissive, BDSM, or S&M lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Colorado Springs BDSM
For those interested or involved in bondage, dominance and submission or sadomasochism, and live in the Colorado Springs, CO area. [Yahoo]
Columbia Erotic Power Exchange
Columbia Erotic Power Exchange (CEPE) public discussion list. CEPE provides, through public munches, members meetings and parties, a support, social and educational forum for members, who are adults, age 21 and over, of all races, genders, beliefs, abilities and orientations in Mid-Missouri and surrounding areas. [Yahoo]
Connecticut BDSM
Mailing list for those living the alternative lifestyle in Connecticut. [Yahoo]
Coventry BDSM
For people in Coventry (UK) and the surrounding area interested in BDSM. [Yahoo]
CT Human Pets
For those interested in human pet play and live in the CT area. [Yahoo]
CUFS Maine BDSM Forum
An educational and safety forum for members of the Maine and New England BDSM and alternative lifestyle communities. [Yahoo]
D/s Couples
Discussion for couples living in a dominant/submissive or master/slave relationship. [Yahoo]
D/s Hearts
For couples in dominant/submissive, master/slave and related lifestyle marriages or committed relationships. [Yahoo]
DADG
A Des Moines area discussion group for those who are interested in the BDSM and dominant/submissive lifestyles. [Yahoo]
Dallas/Fort Worth BDSM
Discussions and posts relating to dominant/submissive and BDSM lifestyles for those in the DFW metroplex area. Others in the southwest who are genuinely interested in the lifestyle are also welcome. [Yahoo]
Dark Connections
BDSM for people of color [Yahoo]
Darkest Desires Central Texas
A Pan-Fetish, Pan-Sexual, independent, volunteer social and support group open to anyone interested in BDSM, D/s, and Fetish. DDCT is based in San Antonio but serves members throughout the Central Texas area.
Dayton Ohio BDSM
For Dayton and S/W-Ohio persons seeking chat, e-mail or real life meetings. [Yahoo]
DE-MD-PA-NJ-BDSM
For East Coast BDSM lifestylers to meet, chat, and get acquainted. [Yahoo]
Deaf Leathermen
For deaf leathermen. [Yahoo]
Delaware BDSM
Promoting the local BDSM community in Delaware, USA. [Yahoo]
Delmarva Ds
Delmarva Ds is a non-profit, pansexual, social and support group in DE for those with an interest in alternative or dominance & submission related lifestyles subjects. [Yahoo]
Denver BDSM
For those in the Denver, Colorado scene who are interested in BDSM, any aspect. [Yahoo]
Denver Bound
Denver CO area BDSM group. [Yahoo]
Different Delights
A pansexual dominant/submissive, bondage/discipline, S&M group in the Shreveport Bossier City area. This group is open to anyone in Shreveport-Bossier, NW Louisiana or Ark-La-Tex. Others in the south who are genuinely interested in the lifestyle are also welcome. [Yahoo]
Disabled Pervs
For discussion of issues related to BDSM and disabilities. [Yahoo]
Diva Midori
BDSM author and educator Midori's discussion group, for discussion of SM, BDSM, fetish, sexuality, bondage and events. [Yahoo]
Dom-sub Lifestyle
For mature adults interested in various aspects of the alternative sexual lifestyle of dominance and submission, from the editors of the Dom-sub Lifestyle eZine. [Yahoo]
DOMestic
Domestic domination and submission for loving couples. [Yahoo]
Domestic Discipline (dmstcdspln)
In existance more than six years, this group focuses on adults who practive consensual Domestic Discipline in a marriage, relationship or friendship. [Yahoo]
Domestic Pet Play
A community for pet play enthusiasts. [Yahoo]
Dominance Submission
Candid adult discussions and polls on dominance and submission, master/slave relationships, bondage and discipline, sado-masochism and polyamourous relationships. [Yahoo]
Dominants, Masters & Mistresses
For discussion of lifestyle issues pertaining to dominants. [Yahoo]
Dominas of Distinction
A group of integrity for articulate, intelligent, humorous, sane Dominas and submissive men. To interchange and exchange thoughts, opinions and reflections. [Yahoo]
Dominating Wives In India
Forum for the couples living/wishing for a female domination lifestyle in India. [Yahoo]
DomSub Friends
Discussion list for DomSub Friends, a pansexual S&M, B&D group for individuals from eastern NY, NJ and CT. [Yahoo]
Ds WWW
A discussion list for people who build and maintain websites with non-pornographic BDSM content. [Yahoo]
Eastern New Mexico
For singles and couples interested in BDSM and total power exchange (TPE) from Eastern New Mexico and West Texas. [Yahoo]
Fem Domme Fem Subs Slaves
Discussing the issues and dynamics of the female dominant/female slave lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Fem Domme, Feb Subs & Slaves
For female dominants and female subs/slaves/switches only, to discuss the issues and dynamics of the female/female BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Gor Australia -- Discussion and Application
An Australian Gorean community, with experiential discussion from an Australian perspective. [Yahoo]
Gorean Whispers
Group for those committed to the Gorean lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Gorrarii
A community of men and women sharing a belief and commitment to the Gorean philosophy. [Yahoo]
GorRarii Kajirae Lifestyle Discussion
For those in service who follow the philosophies and beliefs set forth in the Gor books by John Norman a place to discuss and learn. [Yahoo]
Grieving Leatherfolk
For support of anyone in the leather lifestyle who has lost a partner or friends. [Yahoo]
Hearts In Service
An educational discussion group for all in the Dominant/submissive and Master/slave lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Hearts On Fire
Discussion on the BDSM and dominant/submissive lifestyle. [Topica]
Houston BDSM
For discussion of lifestyle issues and questions. Though Houston BDSM started with a local focus, group members post from all over the world. [Yahoo]
Interracial Dom Sub Forum
For seekers of dominance and submission, regardless of color, ethnicity, gender, religion, sexual orientation or number of partner preferences, [Yahoo]
LATCHES
D&S discussion by submissive women who have real life experience. [mailing list]
Leather Church
For religious leatherfolk of all orientations to discuss sexuality and spirituality. [Yahoo]
Leather History
Focusing on the history of the Leather Community. [Yahoo]
Life Under The Three Moons
Lifestyle Gorean discussion. Topics discussed are generally about bringing Gor into the home. [Yahoo]
Loving Dominants Association
For serious discussion relating to the dominant lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Loving Male Doms
For individuals interested in loving dominant/submissive relationships. [Yahoo]
Maledom Discussion Group
Discussion for male dominants, female submissives and anyone else interested in the male dominant lifestyle.
MAST Jacksonville
A support group for individuals involved in or interested in the master/slave and dominant/submissive lifestyles in the Jacksonville, FL area. [Yahoo]
Non-Vanilla Alanon Alternatives
For the alanon or survivor who can also discuss their BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
NonVanilla AA
A closed A.A. group for those in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
North Florida BDSM
Discussion about the bdsm lifestyle in the North Florida area. [Yahoo]
NY Sub Fems
For female slaves and submissives in the New York City area, including Brooklyn, the Bronx, Queens and Staten Island. [Yahoo]
Parents In The Lifestyle
A resource for members of the BDSM community juggling family life and children with the lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Phoenix BDSM Couples
Discussion among friends in and around Phoenix, Arizona specifically for alternative lifestyle couples in loving committed relationships. [Yahoo]
Pony Pride UK
For those interested or involved in pony play in the UK. [Yahoo]
Profound Submission
Discussion of dominance and submission. [Yahoo]
Pursuing Enslavement LDR
Discussion on living a long distance master/slave relationship. [Yahoo]
Rainbow Bounds
For those into real life and or online BDSM or dominant/ submissive relationships, who are lesbian, bisexual, gay, transgendered or disabled. [Yahoo]
Real Time Submissive Women
Learning group for meeting people face to face and developing relationships with others in the lifestyle. [Yahoo]
Real Time Switches in D/s Lifestyle
Open to real time switches, who practice safe, sane and consensual play, for discussion of their complex relationships. [Yahoo]
Real TPE
To support the discussion of real life total power exchange or absolute power exchange relationships. [Yahoo]
Realmstone
For practitioners of power exchange with a special emphasis on the physical and corporal aspects of dominance and submission and the spirituality of female dominance. [Yahoo]
San Diego Boys Of Leather
For leather boys from the San Diego, CA. [Yahoo]
Slave Space
A learning group, for idea exchange that will lead to growth in service. [Yahoo]
SM Bottoms
A pansexual list for those who define themselves as bottoms, boys (either male or female), slaves or submissives and those who are interested in being one, to discuss concerns, feelings, and issues. [Yahoo]
SMPEX Chat
BDSM lifestyle discussion for those in the Smoky Mountain/ East TN area. [Smart Groups]
Southern Central KY Dominance & Submission
For individuals interested in dominance and submission, living within driving distance of Adair, Barren, Casey, Clinton, Green, Marion, Metcalfe, Pulaski, Russell or Taylor county in KY. [Yahoo]
Southern Ohio Resource and Educational Group
Educational Ohio group formed to increase the knowledge of those interested in the lifestyle and provide the ability to meet people with similar interests, all in a safe enviroment. [Yahoo]
Spirituality of D/s BDSM
For the understanding of the spiritual connection between Master/slave and Dominant/submissive. [Yahoo]
Strictly Ds
For individuals 21 and over interested in or participating in dominant/submissive relationships. [Yahoo]
Strictly Ms
For individuals 21 and over interested or participating in master/slave or mistress/slave relationships. [Yahoo]
Sub For Sub
For submissives and switches with a focus on those who were once victims of abuse. [Yahoo]
Submissive Christian Women
For ladies to share and discuss the many feelings associated with being a wife, mom, lover, submissive, and Christian. [Yahoo]
Submissive Journal
A forum for submissives to share experiences and ask questions. Also includes posts from the female slave list owner about her life with her male master. [Yahoo]
Submissive Network
A pansexual learning and support group for submissives and dominants. [Yahoo]
Submissive Single Christian Woman
For single christian women with a submissive spirit. [Yahoo]
Submissive Survivors
Support and open discussion for submissives and slaves, with issues in their current relationship, or recovering from the emotional upheaval following the end of a Dominant/submissive or Master/slave relationship. [Yahoo]
Subs Den
Founded by the owner of the Leather and Roses website, the Den is an open forum created for submissives, slaves and bottoms as a place to find support and answers to questions in a safe, friendly environment. [Yahoo]
Subs Only
Discussion group for submissives, slaves or bottoms only. [Yahoo]
Subverse : Exploring the Poetry of Surrender
An alternative writing group exploring the poetry and philosophy of surrender. [Yahoo]
The Dominance Submission List Group
For those seeking serious real time discussions on the science of the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
The Dominant Support & Mentoring Group
Support and teaching for new lifestyle dominants. [Yahoo]
The NJ Bound BBW Society
For BBW's and their admirers, who are interested in dominance and submission, in the north, central and southern New Jersey area. [Yahoo]
The Submissive Heart
Submissives only forum. [Yahoo]
Torture Chamber
For discussion of extreme sadism and erotic torture. [Yahoo]
TPE Personals
For those seeking a committed, real-life, total power exchange or internal enslavement relationship that is consensually non-consensual. [Yahoo]
TPEvolutions
Discussion list for committed power relationships and relevant issues, events, and practices. [Yahoo]
Upstate New York BDSM
Moderated by the Albany Kink and Party Club of NY. [Yahoo]
Vintage Bondage
Devoted to vintage bondage photos or photos in the style of the past. [Yahoo]
Whips and Chains of Arkansas
A lifestyle discussion group located in northwest Arkansas. [Yahoo]
Whips and Chains of Texas
A communication network for members of Whips And Chains Of Waco, Texas, a pansexual social club dedicated for individuals involved, or wishing to be involved in the BDSM lifestyle. [Yahoo]
WICKED: Women's Info Channel for Kink-Friendl
A resource for women in the North Carolina BDSM scene. [Yahoo]